My girlfriends and I often chat about appointments that have not gone so well. I am sure you might like to be a mouse in the corner after we have an upsetting client and discuss it with each other on the phone.  My friends in this arena are all mature ladies. They range in age from 35 on up. I must say that in reality, the women that DO NOT fit the stereotype of Pamela Anderson bombshell, are the best.  We are sturdy. We must be. Men can be very critical of our outside appearance. Much of the time, that is ALL they are interested in. 

Men will  play around with their boredom in the hobby.  They intentionally seek out the unusual girl or woman, with the intent on challenging their tolerance for something they ordinarily do not want in a woman.  What is with that?  If you don't like sushi, don't eat it. If you like AMP Chinese spinners, don't go to see a blond BBW in her thirties or a redhead in her forties.  We do not appreciate being the object of your experimentations on your personal tolerance level. 

Twice this week, I have had to talk two ladies down from their angry moods because of this type of behavior from some stupid men out there.  It is a horrible violation. It's a psychological rape from a very inconsiderate boob. These ladies did not deserve to have their days ruined. It is because of these idiots, that men who are sweet and deserving do not get proper attention sometimes. The sins of your brothers are taken out on you dear ones.

We have hearts and souls. We are interesting and complex as we grow into mature adults. When you get to know us, we can be challenging, sensual, erotic and fun. You might have to see past a few wrinkles and some fluff in the middle. We are the ones that will be here for you when you really need it.   I hope my friends let go of their anger. Why do you men have to try to make us bitter?

I welcome your thoughts. Talk me down please.